Elizabeth Gilbert has had it tough; throughout the past year she has come to the realization she no longer wants to be married to her husband, suffers a brutal divorce, and on top of this wanders through an off again, on again relationship with a man named David, who she loves deeply but something always seems to go wrong for the pair. She is tired of the house in the suburbs and the apartment in the city, she's looking for something but she doesn't know yet quite what. But Elizabeth knows she needs to get a taste of something different and being a writer she manages to get herself an advance to travel and find herself, on the condition that she writes about these experiences. So on her search for herself and what she truly wants out of life where better for a gal to go than the three great "I's": Italy, India, and Indonesia. In Italy Gilbert learns Italian a language she thinks is the most beautiful in the world, meets fabulous free-spirited native friends, and eats her way through the culinary finesse of the region, gaining back more weight than she lost during the rocky time after her divorce. Though her apartment is in a beautiful area of Rome filled with many museums and architecture Elizabeth doesn't quite get a true sense of it until her sister comes for a visit guidebooks in tow, but prefers to search around for herself and see what she'll enjoy. Next stop, India. Elizabeth goes to an Ashram where she battles to quiet her mind and feel truly fulfilled in her meditation. She meets many from all around on her spiritual retreat who help her to acknowledge her control issues and thus free herself from her thoughts, even if only momentarily. Elizabeth interacts with god on her own level and next up is Indonesia, I'm about to begin this last portion of the novel myself and am very excited to see what happenings are in store.
Even when the book starts out with tales of her tumultuous divorce period (filled with incessant tears and wondering) Gilbert finds a way to make her writing very lighthearted yet meaningful that really strikes the reader and makes the book enjoyable but not in the least weak of emotion. Midway through the novel Gilbert brings up a wise point that an old woman once told her, " 'There are only two questions that human beings have ever fought over, all through history. How much do you love me? And Who's in charge?'". She makes the reader think about what they value most in their own lives and get a grip on their life struggles as well. By evidencing the cultural differences of many areas Gilbert teaches us no one area is superior, they all have the perks and their downfalls and just like us each is a whole new world to experience and discover. One portion of the book discusses labeling certain areas with words and being a New Yorker as Gilbert is, I'd have to agree that her designation of NY's word as "ACIEVE" is very fitting, but to tell you the truth I think that's part of the thrill of this state. So if your looking for an excellent read to see the world through the eyes of a fellow New Yorker with some dilemmas of her own, pick up a copy, it would be a great vacation read.





